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Gooofygal
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(5/14/06 9:16 pm)
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New Girl Here!!
Hello everyone!!

I'm writing from the Ft. Worth area, I ran across this group while "googling" and read some of the posts. I saw that its not the most active group in the world, but it may be exactly what I need.

I am terribly lonely, its very sad. I'm not really even sure when it began, I like to think maybe back in November of last year, which is sad. I absolutely despise the state I live in (sorry if anyone is in Texas but I do.) I never wanted to move here to begin with, but my ex-girlfriend talked me into and now I'm stuck.

EzCode Parsing Error: color=purple]EzCode Parsing Error: color=purple]EzCode Parsing Error: color=navy size=4]I lost my job 3 months ago and finding another one has been complete and utter hell!! I have hated every single moment of it. I'm not sure why I can't find a job considering I'm a good employee, but with so many people looking for work, I guess it tends to be hard.
I can't really say I don't have any friends, because I do have a few close ones since I've moved here, but I've noticed myself pushing them away. I had a very good friend who stop talking to me once she got a boyfriend and that completely pissed me off, because I can't stand people who do that.
Other than that, I'm not really sure why I'm so sad all the time, I play the outgoing role with all my friends, but if they only know that I'm really not very happy at all inside, I don't now what they would do.
I live with my ex-girlfriend, who works all day and when she does come home she hardly talks to me, she claims to be so fed up with her life, she can't deal with me and my issues.
I don't know, I don't know what to do, or what else to say..

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plume
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(5/16/06 9:36 am)
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Re: New Girl Here!!
Yeah, this is definitly not a very active group. But, don't get discuraged.

I went through something like that a few years back. Moved away from home and couldn't find a job. Plus I didn't know anybody, had poor social skills, and no money. It's tough. Here's a thought though, why not try a temp agency... It's always worked for me.

An ex- girlfriend talked you into moving? I don't get it. Why stick by an ex? Why move off with an ex?

Gooofygal
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(5/24/06 12:11 pm)
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Re: New Girl Here!!

Hi! I'm sorry it took sooo long for me to respond, I didn't think anyone checked on this group..lol

As far as the job front, I am signed up at every single temp agency in Ft. worth..lol and a few that aren't in Ft. Worth..I go to there and fill out there mountains of paperwork, only for them to tell me, they will call me when they find something. With so many ppl all trying to get a limited amount of jobs, its hard and I'm getting nowhere..fast

Moving here to this god awful state, so not my idea, I moved here with my ex, because we are to a point still friends, she just gets on my damn nerves..lol:eek

ethereal tard
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(5/31/06 9:17 pm)
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Re: New Girl Here!!
You just have to keep plugging away. I was in that same position once before. Managed to get out of it only to land in a a much worse position.

I don't get it why leave with an ex? Didn't you have any stronger times back around home than an ex lover?

Gooofygal
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(6/7/06 7:35 am)
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Re: New Girl Here!!
Well I left with her, because we are still friends. Close friends actually. I was really unhappy where we use to live. Texas seemed like a better opportunity, finacially it has been. I make more here than I ever made up in OKC.

She and I just never parted ways, we both save money living together. I don't know. I know we should go our separate ways. But its hard when you've been with someone for so long to just leave them.

ethereal tard
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(6/7/06 2:15 pm)
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Re: New Girl Here!!
Have you found a job yet?

Why not try applying for unemployment aid?

Gooofygal
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(6/18/06 10:15 am)
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Re: New Girl Here!!
I actually did, just get a job! I started this past Wednesday. Its probably one of the better positions I've had. I'm very optimistic about it!!
Maybe it make me begin to like Fort worth better..lol

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