Hey soxie (cool name!)

Well hopefully we can help you out and try and be that haven.
I totally understand your situation, I guess a lot of the people on this forum have no one to turn to even if our circumstances are different (that's why we're here )

What makes you miserable in your relationship? Is it the fact that you have no alone time from your boyfriend? No time to spend with your girl friends?
What makes your happiness fade?

Do you still talk to your friends by phone or IM? Would that help at all? I know it wouldn't be the same but maybe it would help a little.

I think it might be worth making some new friends, it's a slowish process and takes time but it is something you can certainly do.

What have you done to try and meet some new friends? Are you at college? Do you work?
You could join a gym or just go to some yoga classes or something. You could join a nature society or an outdoors type society (maybe hiking or rock climbing). A bookclub?

Maybe when you get your haircut you could tell the hairdresser you're new in town and would like to meet some new people... maybe she'd say "come out with my friends and I" ?